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Each of our staff at Pressman and Associates is highly trained in the best of traditional and new therapies for Wellness. We offer a powerful blend of psychodynamic insight, cognitive transformation, transpersonal perspective, hypnosis, biofeedback and body-oriented therapies. Ours is a holistic approach, recognizing that fulfillment can only be achieved with the full integration of mind, body and spirit. With this, we get an x-ray view into the hidden workings of personality, revealing the stumbling blocks that have kept us from the life we are being called to live. We awaken to the experience of being fully alive, free from the chains and anchors that have held us back.

The "journey" of holistic counseling is an intensive, sometimes challenging and always exciting process of self-discovery. It is a process of uncovering the hidden fears which have kept us imprisoned inside ourselves, and breaking through these barriers to release our inner wellsprings of power, wonder and awe. This is far more than stress management or positive thinking. It is a process of erasing the very sources of stress and negativity so there is nothing left to manage. With this we achieve the ultimate goal of the Self--a profound freedom to choose our life path and see it to fruition. At the journey's end, we find the ability to create our reality and design the life we are meant to live, with a sense of purpose that brings true joy and lasting fulfillment.



Loneliness, isolation, feeling invisible, like you don't really matter...these are some of the most painful experiences in life. And that's why we all seek relationships. The hunger for relationship is perhaps the most powerful drive of all. It compels us to do extraordinary things...both positive and negative. It is responsible for many of the major decisions of our lives. From marriage to children, career and finances, politics and war, relationships literally make the world go 'round.

Clearly, the challenge of a successful relationship can be daunting. We spend our lives longing for fulfillment with another person or people and can create quite a complicated web in the process! Layer upon layer of confusion, misunderstanding, hurt and unfulfilled expectation accumulate through a lifetime to leave us bewildered and in pain about "what went wrong". 

The real challenge of any relationship is to remove the barriers that hide the true Self. This is the secret of intimacy. We must learn how to open the gates to who we really are in order to join with another and experience the fulfillment we seek. When we are intimate with another person, we feel joined with them, a deep empathy and resonance that can be amongst the most meaningful experiences in life. It is called love -- not necessarily the fairy-tale kind of living "happily ever after" is more challenging than that. But with the right tools and a deep understanding of the barriers that cause us to hide ourselves and bump up against each other, we can find the true experience of intimacy and live lives that are joyful, meaningful, whole and complete. 

At Pressman and Associates, we use a combination of deep insight into the sources of the conflicts you are experiencing, and action-oriented "tasks" to move through the barriers to intimacy -- powerfully and thoroughly. Communication skills are only the beginning. Once one becomes adept at the process of self-understanding, it's easy to see how to stop the same old tired patterns that get us into trouble, and then navigate through the other person's barriers as well. And once past these barriers, you will develop the skills to ask for what you truly want in a way that no longer arouses the other's defenses, and help them do the same. For the great discovery of this kind of work is this: People actually want to give you the love you seek. Only their fear of not getting it in return keeps them from doing so. When one person in the partnership finds the keys to asking for or giving love in a way that does not threaten the other, a happy outcome is inevitable. 

The Relationships Program at Pressman and Associates is unsurpassed in its effectiveness at getting you the kind of relationship you want...deep, intimate and fulfilling. We will teach you how to:

  • Identify the hidden assumptions which create the problems in your relationships,

  • Learn the technique of "doing the opposite" to let go of defensiveness,

  • Set goals for creating exactly the kinds of relationships you want,

  • Build a powerful support system for seeing these goals to fruition!

Listen to Dr. Pressman talk about what builds a great relationship.

Dr. Pressman talks about repairing a relationship after infidelity




Here's what some of our clients are saying:

"We would encourage anyone that is experiencing issues in their relationship to contact Pressman and Associates. Their true compassion and desire to help us was evident from our first visit. Their counseling helped us both to recognize the things that were causing problems for us in our relationship. Working with them has greatly strengthened our lives and relationship with each other and we would strongly recommend them to anyone looking for guidance and help. Thank you!"
-- N.P. & G.P Cherry Hill 

"When our marriage was greatly in need of repair, Pressman and Associates helped gently guide us to understanding and growth as a couple. They helped us cultivate a relationship that allows us to express our emotional needs and communicate at a much more effective level. Without their guidance, intelligence, and compassionate spirit, our marriage would not have endured life's challenges. We thank them." 
-- G.A. & L.A. Mullica Hill


Life coaching is a dynamic, results-oriented approach to living an extraordinary life. It differs from counseling in that it focuses exclusively on helping you define and clarify your goals and then taking the actions to reach those goals with power and with purpose. The chief "work" of coaching is to vigorously move through the obstacles to your goals, that you may see real results in the timeframe you set.

It is said "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, each time expecting different results". Life coaching takes a person out of the rut of creating the same unfulfilling experiences, to recreate who you are and redesign your life according to your highest ideals.

PLEASE NOTE: Dr. Pressman is not currently accepting new individual clients for private counseling.  Please inquire about group teleseminars and videoseminars, as well as any of his other speaking or seminar engagements (see "Speaking and Seminars" page of this website) for opportunities to work directly with Dr. Pressman.  If individual or relationship counseling is more appropriate for you, one of our highly trained staff at Pressman and Associates will be happy to help!      





In recent years, American business has become ever-more focused on excellence and efficiency. Motivational seminars have cropped up everywhere, providing short-term, superficial measures to increase productivity, reduce stress or build morale. However, the catch-phrases of these programs create no real change or lasting difference. What's missing is a deep understanding of how people--and therefore businesses--operate. In order to thrive in today's market, this deeper view is critical. The highly-trained, credentialed staff at The Center for Management Excellence can unlock the true potential of your business. With a penetrating, x-ray view into the hidden workings of your business, you can achieve unprecedented levels of success, productivity and fulfillment.

Martin Luther King once said, "If a man is called to be a streetsweeper, he should sweep the streets as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote poetry." Excellence inspires us. With this inspiration, a business becomes infused with life; its people enlivened. The ingredients of excellence are simple: A compelling vision, a solid strategy and especially, a disciplined approach for implementing this vision.





We are a team of highly-credentialed professionals. Our expertise in human behavioral systems uniquely qualifies us to work with your business--understanding its needs, its obstacles and pitfalls, as well as its potentials. We have worked with Olympic and professional athletes. Their levels of performance improved dramatically. We've worked with businesses large and small. Their productivity and sales reached record levels.

Our management philosophy is simple--a business, like a human being, has a psychology; a way of operating based on hidden drives and beliefs. Uncover these drives and beliefs, find the most effective outlets for their expression, and you'll optimize your business' performance. 



This program will provide you with the tools for reaching unprecedented levels of productivity, success, and satisfaction. During this course you will:

  • Create a strategic design for growing your business.

  • Increase productivity as measured by criteria you set.

  • Reduce health-care costs and absenteeism through advanced stress-management techniques.

  • Reduce Workers' Compensation costs by reducing stress-related injuries and helping the injured employee quickly return to work.

  • Experience more fulfillment and satisfaction in your work and personal life.

  • Receive specialized testing and in-depth interviews to analyze the particular challenges of your business. 



We surveyed a sampling of our clients and found the following results:

  • "What is the likely increase in SALES as a result of our work together?"... 55% 

  • "What is the percent decrease in ABSENTEEISM as a result of our work?"... 50% 

  • "What is the decrease in MEDICAL COSTS from stress-related problems?"... 45% 

  • "What is the increase in SATISFACTION in the workplace?"... 70% 

  • "What is the increase in EMPLOYEE MORALE as a result of our work?"... 231% 

  • "What is the estimated TIME SAVED as a result of our work?"... 33% 

  • "What is your overall level of SATISFACTION with our work?"... 98%

  • "Doing more of what I want"... 40% 

  • "Making better business choices"... 40% 

  • "Improved relationships with clients"... 50%



  • "Designing your goals: Blueprint for fulfillment. - You are the architect of your worklife.

  • The problem: Hidden Assumptions (H.A.s) which distort our Vision. 

  • The fundamental obstacle to excellence: The "Automatic Response" (A.R.) to our H.A.s. 

  • The solution: Bypassing the Automatic Response, "doing the opposite". 

  • Creating a Vision for your work life: Freedom from the Hidden Assumption and Automatic Response is the key to Visionary Leadership. 

  • Team building: Creating vibrant, healthy and fulfilling work relationships. 

  • Sensitivity training--Deeply understanding each other; we all share the same H.A.s and A.R.; we all want a better way. 

  • Communication skill-building--Communicating without the distorting filter of your H.A.s and A.R. 

  • Exposing the illusion of your H.A.

  • Assessing how your H.A.s influence your decisions (at work and in life). 

  • Leadership training. 

  • Confidence-building: Working through the H.A.s and A.R.s which sabotage confidence. 

  • Taking responsibility for one's role as if it were their own business. 

  • Self-Expression: Removing the obstacles (A.R.s and H.A.s) to putting one's whole self into their work. 

  • Discovering the power to choose differently: the paradigm shift. 

  • Mindfulness training--"embracing" the H.A. 

  • Advanced Stress Management. 

  • Building concentration and focus.

  • Mindfulness training to focus attention for extraordinary clarity and mental prowess. 

  • Constructing networks of support—getting the job done. 

  • Overcoming the resistance to asking for help: Making sure goals get met. 

  • Working through the fear of rejection, the need to save face, trying to "look good".

    • "Would you rather be right or happy?". 

    • Giving up our "rights"--serving the larger Purpose. 

    • Review and fulfillment of goals.


An already successful two hundred person manufacturing company employed our services after a recent move. Their goals were to improve performance, increase employee satisfaction, and reduce the stress imposed by the move. A team of our experts came in to study the environment. Interviews with select personnel and testing for needs assessment were performed. This resulted in the establishment of weekly group sessions in the Sales Department, specially selected for the project. Additionally, on-site "curbside" consultation was made available for all personnel to come to on an as-needed basis. 

The results were dramatic: Sales increased by 45%, absenteeism was reduced by 50%, and medical costs resulting from stress-related problems were also decreased by 50%. Verbal reports from randomly selected employees gave compelling testimony to a basic truth: when given the structure to express themselves, become involved, and act on their interests, people respond with greater productivity and higher quality in their work product.

Great RelationshipsTodd Pressman, Ph.D.
After InfidelityTodd Pressman, Ph.D.


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